I decided to blog about this experience because I wanted it to be interactive. I've gotten several verbal comments of how people enjoy reading the blog and even people asking me when will I update it. However, I expected to receive more comments and questions along the way. I envisioned even being somewhat guided by comments and suggestions.
I didn't expect this of just you, the Reader. I also expected it of Isaac. I can't "make" you guys be interactive, but I can strongly encourage my boyfriend to give some feedback. The entire blog is about MY feedback. Here's some feedback from HIM:
The month is almost done and I must say it has seemed to fly by. Not exactly sure if that is good or bad, it just is. I can definitely say that I have enjoyed the times we have spent together. Each of our dates has had plenty of laughs. Sha is a fun loving person, so that's to be expected. She is way more outgoing and assertive than I am. So, we are definitely not "two peas in a pod" which always makes for an interesting combination. I think it would take much longer than a month of pleasantries to really get to the essence of who "we" would be as a couple. We exist in very different worlds which makes it hard to mesh. She is very devoted to her life, friends, and family. Which is all good. Anyway, as far as Sha, I like her. She doesn't complain and nag. Though she is a fan of getting her way and thinks she is always right (a trait we share), it hasn't caused tension. She's always encouraging and supportive of me. That's a must for me because I am always out on a limb and need the occassional reassurance that I'm not crazy or alone. If we both knew that this was an attempt to make a relationship that could last longer than 30 days, I think it would be a little different but all in all, I can say that I have enjoyed the experience thus far and look forward to the last few days of sharing it with her.
Now Readers, do YOUR part. :) Ask questions, give comments, add suggestions for what to do or not do for next time.............INTERACT. Please also feel free to suggest future candidates.
I hate this month is ending soon for this one! I really like Isaac. Hopefully, with spring coming, you can do more stuff outdoors.
ReplyDeleteI agree with the previous comment, I hate that this month is coming to an end! Although you may not be two peas in a pod as Issac stated, it seems as though you have an amazing chemistry. Although your intention is to have a new "boyfriend" each month, I am curious to know if you have any desire to pursue a more serious relationship with Issac?
ReplyDeleteLove the idea and the blog! But yeah, how committed are you to the experiment? After a month do you just move on to the next, or if you really like one guy, do you keep him around past a month, while dating another guy? How long before YOU feel as if you want to be serious with one guy? and when and if you do, do you discontinue the experiment?
ReplyDeleteLoved reading the updates! It seems you and Isaac got along really well. I say revisit him after the experiment is over if there's still an interest. I'm thinking that meeting and getting to know a few more candidates, learning what you do and do not like about them, would be a good experience and help in the decision making process should one of your candidates make the cut for "Sha's for real boyfriend". :-)
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